Category Archives: COPD

The black humour Tuesday

This Tuesday included a first visit from the community nurse.  Mum was referred to her when Sister 1 took her to have a DNR (Do Not Resuscitate / respect form) put in place.  One of the first things the nurse … Continue reading

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A Quite Lovely Tuesday

This Tuesday included 30mph on the M23, Tesco, prescriptions, road closures, spaghetti bolognese cooking, and steam cleaning of floors. (It also contained a bit of sulking, shouting and crying and  – possibly surprisingly – I wasn’t responsible for any of … Continue reading

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We need badges!

I’ve had an idea. We need badges! And now I will take a couple of steps back and explain myself: Some of the time I spend with Mum is funny and some is daft and some is enjoyable and some…well, … Continue reading

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The Secret Plan part two…

…did not go to plan.  There was a mix up with the agency and we have had to postpone things until next week.  When we will meet a different lady.  And in a true test of Mums awareness, I am … Continue reading

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The start of The Secret Plan Tuesday

It’s been a few weeks, what with galavanting off to America, and it was a bit like Mum had a holiday too (from me!).  She was nice  🙂 . She didn’t sulk once and she did huge amounts more than … Continue reading

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The tricky Tuesday

It was a tricky Tuesday this week. I don’t know what it was that annoyed Mum initially – maybe when I suggested we put on her bra that she had forgotten.  Or when I told her that one sock should … Continue reading

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The ‘I might go rusty’ Tuesday

The amazing news this Tuesday is that when I arrived, Dad was being seen by a respiratory nurse. I didn’t know there was such a thing for people with COPD, but when Dad got really rather poorly in around July, … Continue reading

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Happy Birthday Daddy W

Yesterday was Dads 78th birthday 😁 As Dad has all the ‘things’ a 78 year old who only leaves the house occasionally to get new library books could possibly need, so my sisters and I decided to cook and eat … Continue reading

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Log flumes and Rollercoasters

Last Tuesday I took Mum to have lunch with a friend. Then I went for lunch with a friend.  And it was lovely. But apart from that, last Tuesday was a tricky day. When I got to Mum and Dads … Continue reading

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Broaching a tricky subject…and not being amazingly successful 🤦🏼‍♀️

After our hospital excitement the week before last I took both Mum and Dad to their GP; Mum because the hospital told me to in order to get her an MRI scan and Dad because his breathing was worse than … Continue reading

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